Most people have a furious itch to talk about themselves
and are restrained only by the disinclination of others to
listen. Reserve is an artificial quality that is developed
in most of us as the result of innumerable rebuffs.
- W.S. Maugham

If someone needed to pick me out of a police line up, they might describe me as shorter than average, with blue-green eyes and red-brown hair with a touch of gray. I am pushing thirty-one and graduated from the University of Rochester in 2000, but haven't left yet for some reason.